Thursday, November 14, 2013

Our Crazy World

A little over a month ago, our life got little more crazy than normal. I say that, because we seem to enjoy the craziness of life, but this was a little more than we bargained for. I can't complain though, God really watched over all of us and blessed us.

On September 28, Larry and I got home from a Ronald McDonald House event around 11pm.  We watch an episode of Storage Wars Texas and were just about to turn the lights off and go to bed, when I heard our neighbors fire alarm going off.  

Quick note...We have lived in a two story townhouse duplex for the past 3 plus years, so we share a wall, that can be very thin is certain areas of the house, such as the stairs.

So, I heard the neighbors fire alarm.  I looked at Larry and said, "that went off the other day, but for only 30 seconds before it turned off."  Then, all of a sudden, you could hear 2 alarms going off, because the were not in sync with each other.  I pretty much pushed Larry out of bed and told him something is not right and he needed to go check on it.  I had this gut feeling.

Larry got up, I am honestly not sure what he did, but I opened my closet door to get my shoes.  I knew something was not right.  When I opened my closet door, I could smell smoke.  I grab my flip flops, a bra out of the dirty clothes, because it was right there.  I thought for a brief second about clothes.  I was standing in my closet of goodness sake, but I could not figure out what to grab to put on.  I had on my pjs; luckily I sleep in pants and a tank top, but keep the top the the pj pants beside the bed.  I grabbed my purse and then our doorbell went nuts.  

Larry yelled at me to grab the kids.  I ran into Natalie's room first, flipped on her light and grabbed her out of bed with her blanket around her.  I did not even grab shoes for her, because her closet was on the opposite side  of the room.  

I then ran into Carter's room screaming his full name.  Oh yes, I used the full name!  Because of the way the lights are with his fan, I could not turn the lights on, but he uses he closet as a night light so I flew the door open and grabbed flip flops.  I yelled him to wake up; poor thing was in a dead sleep.  Once he came to a bit, I told him calmly there was a fire next door.  We were going to be okay, but we needed to get out of our house and to grab his blanket, because it was cold outside.  He later got a little mad at me for not grabbing his puppy (stuffed of course) that he has had since birth.  Seriously, I thought I was doing good getting a blanket.  I am proud to say, puppy is just fine and back in the arms of his loving owner.

We got outside and I saw our neighbors kids across the street. I walked over to them and had them sit down beside me to comfort them.  Our neighbor had just moved in about a month ago, she has 3 kids, a 16 year old, a 14 year old and a 10 year old.  The 14 year old was at a friend's house.  

It was not until I crossed the front yard, I saw the fire.  Our townhouses are set up the exact same, but flipped.  The fire was in the living room and was quit large by now.  You could also hear sirens in the back ground  heading our way.

Larry must have run back inside our house to get our fire extinguisher.  He went in the neighbors house and almost got the fire out until the fire extinguisher died.  He then, went into our house and backed my car out of the garage, which was nice, because I put all the kids in it to keep warm.  

I called my mom at midnight to come get my kids.  My first words were, "Mom, everything is okay and everyone is fine, but there is a fire in our neighbors townhouse and I am not sure how long this is going to take, so can you come pick my kids up?"

I started off that way, so she would not immediately freak. I figured she already was, because it is midnight and my number came up on caller id.  I knew she thought something was wrong with Natalie probably.

We had 7 fire trucks, an ambulance, a few fire related cars, fire investigator, Red Cross, just to name a few. There were neighbors out; lets just say it was quit a show.



The firemen did an amazing job and got the fire out and got the smoke out of our side.  We were able to go back in and get a few things for the night, but our townhouse smells terrible. Natalie's room happens to be the worst and was farthest from the fire.  I think because smoke rises and there is pass way from one side to ours, right in front of Natalie's room.

My neighbor's side was totaled.  The entire townhouse is black from the smoke.  I have never seen anything like it before, it is crazy.  We had horrible smoke damage as well, but not quite that bad.
The living room where the fire started

I can not complain, we have renter's insurance.  Larry owns the townhouse with 2 other guys and they had great insurance as well.

One thing that shows God was watching over all of us...Our neighbor had a sign right outside the room where the fire started, that said "God's Rules for Our Family."  Everything on the sign burnt expect for the, "Trust God."  Does that not give you chills?

We did have to  move out and we will not be moving back in.  We have to be over cautious, because of Natalie.  We had bought a house a month before all of this, which we are going to redo a little and move in. The house, however, is not ready yet, but we have a place to go for a while until it is ready for us to move in.

Hole outside Natalie's room
Smoke was coming in this area bad, so the fireman busted up a hole to check it

See the black around the bathmat, that is from smoke

Inside the drawer
Crazy how this stuff gets everywhere

Servpro (the do fire and water damage clean up) also came in and boxed up my entire house.  They were amazing!

Now, I have to say, we do have some comical moments here lately.  One, we had to borrow luggage from my mom to go out of town, because all of ours is getting cleaned.  Larry also asked me where his tooth brush charger was.  I looked at him and said I do not know, but at least we have the same tooth brush, so you can borrow my charger.  That is a little of how our life is at the moment.

We have lived in worst situations and been through worse, so I am just happy everyone is okay.  Now, I will say, we had to move suddenly. I was expecting a few more months with my alley neighbors.  Our kids played together daily and we hung out in the alley at night.  I have been sad about that, but luckily our boys still go to school together.

Our neighbors and ourselves bakes a few goodies a week or so after the fire and took them to the Fire Station to thank the fireman for all the did and do on a daily basis.  They were amazing and showed the kids around the station.  As a mom, I was totally stressed the entire time.  I mean 6 to 7 kids running around a fire station with alarms and buttons everywhere...I do not think I need to say more.
Sy Thoennes and Dean Watkins cover their ears as they test the fire system for us

Avery Watkins and Natalie

Kids loving the Fire Truck

Fireman's TV Room

Natalie and I

All the Kids thanking the Fireman
We love what you all do everyday and night...Thank you!
My kids have done amazing since the fire for the most part.  They were both pretty freaked out that night; totally understandable though.  Natalie however, is getting better, but was totally freaked out by smoke detectors for a while.  She flipped out the night after the fire, because my mom's smoke detector was blinking (which is normal).  She has finally calmed down, but still walks in a place and looks for the smoke detectors in the room.  So, if you plan on having Natalie come over, you better by fire safety ready or she will point it out!

I can honestly say, for now on, Larry and I will have at least 4 to 5 fire extinguishers in our house.  We already had smoke detectors in every room and carbon monoxide detectors as well, which will continue.  I ask all of you to check your smoke detectors and make sure you have at least one fire extinguisher if not more than one.  I truly believe they saved our life!  Be smart, especially with Christmas around the corner.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Fall Sports...Can you say "soccer mom"?

Yes, I think I can say finally that I am officially a "soccer mom".  I do carry snacks and drinks in my car at all times, along with not just one book, but two and a blanket and chairs. Oh, my car looks like I am constantly moving almost, but it is the only way when you go from sport to sport all week and weekend long.  In fact, one weekend, we actually packed a cooler.  I may have lost my mind, but I do love it!

Carter keeps us busy in the fall with soccer and for the first time this year, flat football.  I loved watching Carter and his friends figure out flag football.  Every time one of them pulled a flag, they would hold it up high like they had just won a trophy or something.  

Wolves Soccer Team
Back Row...Asst. Coach Keith and Coach Colin
Middle Row...Colson, Jonas, Ethan and Carter
Front Row...Braden, Ephraim, Peter and Matthew


 Carter had a blast this season in soccer.  He discovered that you can block the ball with your chest and your head...needless to say, that was the coolest thing ever!  Plus, being able to kick the ball and have it go off the ground is pretty cool too!
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Flag Football is AWESOME, in Carter's eyes!  He has really enjoyed getting to play, though I am pretty sure when he can finally tackle that will be way better.  Especially since the kind of tackled a few times on accident...oops.


Saturday, November 2, 2013

Happy Few Days Late Halloween

I know Halloween was 2 days ago, but what can I say?  By the time I got my kids dressed or let me rephrase that, by the time I let my kids get dressed after homework and naps (extremely important for Natalie on such a big night), we were walking out the door to Trick or Treat.  So here I am two days later finally getting online to post the most popular online pictures in the past few days.

What Natalie actual wore
She has pj day at school and when I woke her up from nap, she wanted nothing to do with dressing up

Carter
He was so pumped his eye lite up

What Natalie was suppose to be for Halloween

Our Fun Trick or Treating Gang
The Bunn Family, The Thoennes Families and The Heflin Family

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Carter's Excellent Adventure

I love saying, "Excellent Adventure," it reminds me of my dad.  Man, I miss him, but am thankful to know he is watching over us from Heaven.

Okay, I know it has been 3 almost 4 months since Carter's Excellent Adventure, but I still wanted to share it.  I am playing catch up still. Our world continues to stay crazy, not sure what I would ever do if it did calm down...I might be the one that goes insane then.

Once the grandkids turn 5, they get to go on a special trip with Larry's parents (Saints they are).  This was Carter's second year to go to Hot Springs, so he knew what to expect and was talking about all he wanted to do while there.  He really does not ask you what he can do, but tries to tell you what he is going to do, something we are strongly working on (I am the parent and He is the child, conversation).

Carter loved his special time with Gran and Papa.  If you could visit something, do something or experience something, they did it...

He even won a ball for his sister





Carter and his Texarkana Buddy, Hunter Patterson doing some art work

Gran was smart. I sometimes do this, just so everything goes quicker and smoother

Sand Art


















Wednesday, October 2, 2013

A Year Ago

A year ago this week, Natalie has just had her 4th open heart surgery.  Can you believe it has been an entire year?  I know, I can't. 

Natalie a year ago, the day of surgery

Natalie, a year ago, the day after surgery and not too happy by the way

I love this picture...A Daddy's Heart
Larry holding Natalie's hand after surgery
Priceless


She is doing amazing!  In fact, we just went to the pediatrician today for a check and the old flu shot.  She currently weighs 28.8lbs!  I am hoping that maybe by Christmas, she will finally hit 30lbs. 
 
Her oxygen was 86!  I am so proud of her and all she has accomplished this past year and to be honest her entire life. 
 
She has been going to 4 year old Pre-K and is doing wonderful!  She is still having an adjustment, not being with "mom" all day, like last year.  We have been working on writing her name.  I can not believe she is almost 4.5 and writing her name.  It makes me want to cry sometimes, with how big she is getting and so fast. 
Natalie at her 4th Birthday!
Lalaloopsy Heaven, Thanks to Uncle Sterk, Aunt Holly, Kate and Luke

Princess Sophia, Oh, I mean Natalie
A possible runner for Halloween this year

Carter and Natalie in Galveston, back in June from our Vacation


I am a firm believer, she is her with us and doing so well, because of all the prayers and support since she has been born.  Thank you...